Thinking of getting yourself a fleshlight? You’re probably here to see what all the rage was about before jumping in. If you don’t know how to use fleshlights, don’t worry, we got you covered. By the end of this article, you can consider yourself an expert in the subject.
First things first, are fleshlights worth it? Heck yeah! They’re very much worth it. You think your hand and your porn are good, wait till you get your hands on a fleshlight. Neither of those two can even compare against a great fleshlight masturbation. Once you feel how amazing this toy is, you’ll never go back to your primitive masturbation ways.
If you’re feeling conscious about this entire thing, don’t be. Even women use sex toys. It’s perfectly normal. Don’t let shyness rob you of the pleasure that a fleshlight can give you. Get one now.
In case you need a little more convincing, keep reading this article. We’ll tell you everything you that you should know about fleshlights and its benefits.
Meet your new favorite partner in crime. Fleshlights
Let’s say; you swallowed your pride and placed your order. The box arrived at your house safely and Hurrah! You finally got your first fleshlight. So now what?
It’s easy to figure out how to use this sex toy, even for first-time fleshlight users. Honestly, it looks exactly what it should be. Your basic instincts would probably take it from there and figure it all out. However, that’ll just give you a basic experience. This sex toy is a work of art that’s crafted and perfected by many, many years of research and development. It can give you so much more than just a good release. It can give you THE release, like you’ve never had it before. So, how do you achieve that result?
Prep your Fleshlight
If batman needs prep time before his fights, so does your fleshlight. You first have to prepare your scabbard before sheathing your sword in.
The first thing should do is to remove all tubes inside it. Take it from other people’s experience (not saying it’s ours but a friend of a friend’s), don’t get over excited and slip yourself in. Fleshlights come with either a cardboard box or a plastic tube in them upon delivery.
The last thing you want is to rub yourself against those boards. It’s pretty painful. Just insert two fingers into the fleshlight and fish those cardboards out real quick. Massage it a little to make sure there aren’t any left in there.
Warm it up
Finally, it’s ready! No, not yet. Let’s not get over excited. We know that it’s a lot of hard work but it’ll pay off. Just be patient and perform all of these preparations carefully and completely.
Alright, so your fleshlight feels like a real flesh. However, it’s pretty cold. Don’t try it on now; you’ll just feel like your thrusting into a cold dead body. You’d want to imitate the real thing, so you need to know how to warm up a fleshlight.
The normal human temperature would be around 98 degrees Fahrenheit. That’s the temperature that you’d want it to be in before diving into it. That would really make it feel real. There are plenty of ways to achieve that warmness.
First, buy a “Fleshwarmer.” They say that whenever an idea pops into someone’s head, there’s a great chance that about 8 people worldwide are thinking about it right now too or something like that. The point is that somebody understands your pain, and they already made a solution for it. Flesh warmers are dedicated machines made to warm up fleshlights. That’s just what they’re made for, to make your life easier and much more exciting.
If you’re a more traditional (broke) person, go for the hot-water+sink method. Just remove your fleshlight from its case and submerge it in hot water for 20 minutes. It’ll float, so weigh it down. Change the hot water twice and do it once every 10 minutes. That’ll ensure its hotness and effectivity.
The wetter it is the better
Now that it’s pretty warm, slide some lube down on it. Just like with real pussies, make sure it’s wet before entering it. Don’t slide in rough. That won’t feel so good.
Since this is not real, and it can’t be simulated, pour some lube down on it and make it slippery. Here’s a pro tip: use lubes that are water based. Fleshlights’ fake skin doesn’t do so well with silicon and oil lubes. Those fluids can damage it. They can melt its skin down and make it stick. That’s not what you’d want. Imagine inserting yourself in a melting pussy. Yuck! Just use water lubes, they’re safe.
So how is it done?
Your fleshlight is almost already and you should already feel it’s goodness by now. Go ahead and introduce yourself to it a little. Then get back here. We’ll pass down some sage-level secret on how to make the most of your fleshlight.
There have been many people who’ve used fleshlights before you. They’ve already unlocked its secrets and developed some techniques on how to maximize its use. Here are some tips and suggestions that we compiled based on our experiences. They work 100% (for us at least. Hopefully for you too!).
Use your hands
Well of course. Who says that all those years of hand practice is wasted? Even if you have a new place to deposit your sword into, it doesn’t mean that you’re totally abandoning your hand. We know you guys are tight. Plus, there’s more than one reason why this device is shaped like a flashlight. That’s so you could hold it like a flashlight.
Hold its case (like it’s a flashlight) and move your penis into it with your hand. It’ll feel like old times, when you’re masturbating except now, it feels 100x better. This method is pretty Jurassic. It’s old and basic. It’s not that exciting, but you don’t get to modern times without going through that period. So as a beginner, this is fine.
The biggest downside is that your hand will feel numb after a while. Also, some fleshlight cases are too big that they can’t be held for a long time. So if you like doing this method, search for a model with a smaller case. We suggest looking at Flight series. They have really good handhelds there.
To simulate a real vagina with that fleshlight, mount it without using your hands. Now, there are plenty of ways to make it happen. Here are some fleshlight techniques that we’ve learned so far.
Fleshlight and its mount
Yes, of course. If someone thought of inventing a fleshwarmer, they must’ve also thought about making a device that can hold a fleshlight while they enjoy it. In this case, it’s Liberator, a sex toy company. They offer a modern way to free your hands while using fleshlights.
This company produces many mounts that can hold your fleshlights in different positions. Find them all on Amazon or just search for Fleshlight motions on google. It’s the name of the series. It has a missionary version as well as a doggy style version.
Fleshlight motion products are amazing. They all have great fabrics and sleek designs as well as microfibers that help lock your fleshlight in place. It’s not that cheap, though. It will cost you.
No touchy (broke version)
Who says you can’t enjoy stuff without spending on them? We all have a little inventor in us. Just get creative. Find a way and mount that fleshlight without spending a single cent. There are plenty of ways that can happen.
Method 1: Pillows, mattresses, etc.…
This method will take some practice. Try two pillows first, then go with a mattress. Use everything around your house. It’ll feel a little unstable so play with it and make some adjustments until it works.
Method 2: Shoes
Hold on, give it a chance. Use one of your shoes as a mount. It doesn’t sound appealing, but it works. It’s embarrassing at first, but it works.
Just stick your fleshlight into a shoe. That would give it a nice 45-degree angle. It’s one of our most effective and practical fleshlight techniques.
Utilize its case
You might have noticed that your case comes in three parts. There’s a front cap, a main casing, and a smaller, rear cap. All of these parts have their own functions. The bigger cap protects the entire device. The main casing holds its “pussy,” where the genital is inserted. The last part, rear cap has the best job.
If this is your first fleshlight experience, know that this device’s suction control is located on rear caps. Tightening it means tightening the “pussy.” The looser it is, the least hold that “pussy” will have on your penis. So, if you want it feeling crazy, screw it really tight with its casing. That would produce an absolutely powerful sensation.
Tips and tricks on which position that works best for you
Try doing doggy with it.
It’s not easy. We know. We’ve tried it too. However, it’s definitely possible. You might be wondering, how do I do that with this device? It’s simple. Just stick it somewhere. Read the “no touchy” section above and try one of those hands-free methods. It’ll take some practice, but it sure is rewarding.
Doggy is one of those positions that goes well with every sex toy. Doing it with a fleshlight is no different. We do suggest getting a liberator mount for it. It’s a little over a hundred dollars, but it’s worth it.
There are plenty of ways you can do a missionary pose with this toy. That shoe advise we gave you earlier is one example. If you’re not comfortable doing that, get a mount for it from liberator. It’s not that expensive, anyway.
Try doing it even if you’re not hard.
Try taking it soft. It’ll take some serious concentration to make it happen, but it’s fun. Although, much harder than you’d think. Just stop yourself from getting aroused and try not to think about the act so much until you plunge it in.
Fleshlights don’t talk. They can’t say that it’s not going to work and that you shouldn’t do it. You captain this pleasure ship, and nobody can say otherwise. Just try it.
Of course, it’ll take more natural lube than usual. It has to be really slimy in order to get your penis in. It’ll take some time before it actually goes in. It’s a different sensation than when you’re hard. Try not to move immediately after sliding it in. Just feel its sensations, then start pushing and pulling that fleshlight with your hand. It’s not one of those breathtaking experiences that you’re used to, but it feels nice. Try it, even just once in your life.
Taking care of your partner
We know that you’ll love your first fleshlight. That’s why it’s important that it’s well cared for. It’s okay not to know how, especially if this is your first fleshlight. Just follow these steps in order when cleaning your favorite sex toy:
- 1 Take the “pussy” out of its casing. Wash it thoroughly with water. Don’t use anything but regular water at this point, it might damage it. Close its rear-end opening and fill the “pussy” with water then hold both ends to trap some water inside. Afterwards shake it really hard. This will clean up all those bodily liquids that was deposited inside of it.
- Turn the “pussy” inside out. This will make cleaning its hole easier. Don’t keep it that way for too long. As soon as you’re done cleaning its insides, turn it back again. Leaving it like that will bend it out of shape.
- 2 Either use a dedicated cleaner or an alcohol and clean the “pussy.” There are many gentle fleshlight cleaners around that are designed to be gentle on your sensitive “pussy” part. Try searching for them on Google. We personally recommend Lovehoney Fresh. It’s pretty nice.
- When using alcohol, Use Isopropyl. This would help disinfect and kill all bad bacteria that could be in there. Be very thorough and make sure to clean every part of your device. Miss a part and mildew could thrive there. That’s that last thing you’d want, especially since you’re putting your most sensitive part inside of it.
- 3 Next, dry it off. If you’re not sure how to dry a fleshlight, here’s how it’s done. First, wipe it thoroughly with a clean towel or clean tissues. Those are cleaner than towels.
- Pay extra attention on the “pussy” hole. It’ll take some time before it completely dries off. Insert it back into its casing but don’t plug either of its ends with its caps yet. Just leave it alone for a few hours. You can also cheat it and use a hard dryer but only those cool air ones. Hot air will loosen up your device so don’t use hot hair dryers.
- Here’s a quick reminder: never leave your toy under direct sunlight. It will sag. As much as possible, keep it in a cool dry place and don’t leave it out and about if you’re not using it.
- 4 Notice that your fleshlight is slightly slimy now. Don’t worry, just sprinkle some fleshlight powder into your “pussy”, and it would go be soft again. Make sure that every part of that device is covered, even its insides. Then massage it with your fingers.
Alright, congrats! You did it. You’re now officially a great fleshlight master. Now remember all of these MyToyforJoy tips. They’ll really enhance your experience with your fleshlight. Of course, these fleshlight tips and tricks are just basics.
There are so much more to learn about fleshlights. Treat this as a first step. Don’t be afraid and just experiment with your fleshlight. Remember, you’re alone and there’s nothing to be ashamed of.
That’s what this toy is made for, as a pleasure device even when you’re alone. So, excited to dive into the world of fleshlights? Of course, you are! Here, to start you off, here is the best fleshlight sleeve available today.