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While growing up, spanking was a punishment for children for their mischief. Parents either slapped or whipped their children’s buttocks using a belt or cane. While some children, especially girls, hated being spanked on their bottom, others enjoyed and looked forward to it as long as it was not intense. But now that some of these children are all grown, their perception of spanking changed.
Spanking a child usually is against their wish, and many children would instead take up a different form of punishment than have their bottom feel the heat of a spanking. However, there is a growing trend in adult bare bottom spanking. This trend involves adults receiving and giving spanks to fellow adults from either gender just for pleasure. Sometimes, the spanking takes place during a steamy sex session or in a dominant-servant relationship.
However, some naughty adults may spank their fellows without their consent. In most cases, spanking without permission is considered abuse. Here are some of the things you need to know about spanking bare bottoms.
Bare Bottom Spanking: What is it all about?
You may have heard of people around you talk about how they enjoy spanking bare bottom and looking forward to it. Maybe your partner asked whether you could spank them, and you are wondering what the fuss or how to spank bare bottom. Spanking is the act of striking the buttocks using either bare hands or an object. Spanking a naked or clothed bottom is either a sexy play or a form of punishment. So, bare bottom spanking is the act of striking or slapping buttocks without clothes.
The spanking can be one strike or several counts and may involve the recipient of the strikes standing, bending, lying down, or on your laps, or kneeling on a spanking horse. Because spanking in adults is mainly for enjoyment, you can incorporate it as part of sexual foreplay. Spanking bare bottoms are considered part of BDSM and involve a light spanking or more intense spanking, using best whips.
How to do Bare Bottom Spanking
If no one has ever spanked your bottom or you have never spanked anyone, you may not know how it feels altogether. You need to know the dos and don’ts of spanking before you can spank bare bottoms. Otherwise, you will cause unnecessary injuries to the recipient. First, you need to know that there is no fixed guide to spanking. The act depends on how your partner or Dom wants it done. So, seek their consent and ask them how they would want you to spank them.
Sometimes, you could be the one in need of a spanking, but you do not know how to ask for a spanking. In this case, you can either look for someone to help out. Politely ask your friends to spank you by telling them what and how you enjoy bare bottom spanking. You can also ask them indirectly by telling them that you would want to confirm something about the spanking. Of course, it will be awkward for you at first, but you may just get a permanent spanking partner.
Make sure that you have the right tools before you start giving or receiving a spank. Once you are ready for the spanking, ask the spank recipient to remove their pants or skirt and underwear so that you can spank them. Have them stand, bend, lye on your lap, or seat. Confine your spanking to the lower half of the bottom. The over the knee bare bottom spanking is also possible if you still feel pain on your buttocks from the previous spanking. Spank as hard as the recipient of the spank wants. The process also applies if you are the spankee.
Tools to Use for Bare Bottom Spanking
There is neither guide nor specific tools for spanking; anything can work entirely as long as there is a pleasure. However, most erotic spanking requires paddles or whips, but bare hands can also work magic. You can also use a hairbrush, straps, belts, taws, or feather duster. For erotic bottom spanking, you can incorporate unique costumes such as a spanking skirt. This unique skirt is designed to expose the buttocks but covers other areas of the body. Apart from costumes, you can consider including spanking horse or spanking bench to position a spankee. This piece of furniture has a padded top and rings used for restraint.
The Feeling of Bare Bottom Spanking
The first bare bottom spanking experience may determine whether you will spank or receive spanking again. The feeling will depend on the intensity of spanking and the tool you use. Some people draw pleasure from an intense and painful strike that leaves a red spanked bare-bottomed. Other people prefer a gentle and less painful spanking. So, only the recipient of the spank can tell the feeling. How was your bare bottom spanking experience? Did the tools and sex toys help with the experience?
Spanking of bare bottoms can be a form of punishment or sexual foreplay. For enjoyment, it requires mutual consent from both the spanker and the spankee. The impact, object used, spanking position, reason, and location should be determined by the recipient to avoid possible abuse.
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