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The U.S. is known for its sexual liberty. It is indeed a free country when it comes to sexual exploration. Thus, people here are engaged in all sorts of fetishes. If you are someone who feels ashamed of your kink, you would be surprised to find so many people sharing the same kind of kink if you were to come out.
And if you are confident and own your fetish confidently, you probably already know a lot of people who are into different sorts of sexual explorations. Fetishes are becoming as common as sex toys. However, one must be careful about STIs in both cases.
Medical fetish is among the common ones and that is evident from the numerous porn videos that have med fet as its theme. The medical world is not a far-fetched world, and at some point in our life, we have been treated by doctors and nurses. Sexual fetish more often than not stems from the most mundane circumstances and things. That is why it is often called the by-product of socialization. Fetishes often blur the line between the subject and the object. It is the excess that generates in the realm of social reality and finds its way out through private practice.
This generation of perversion from the very roots of decorum can sometimes become a drive for some people. Medical fetish is one such example.
What is a Medical Fetish?
Medfet is a fetish where a particular person is aroused by anything related to medical practice. It is not just limited to doctor-nurse-patient role play but involves a vast possibility of fantasy. It could mean attraction to the medical environment, medical equipment, settings, and of course, people engaged in medical practice. Some might even get aroused by just the uniforms in the mentioned field.
Not the above-stated fantasies can be manifested in sex, but the idea behind it is arousal. One can merely use or fantasize about equipment and medical setting while having sex.
Why Do People Like Medfet?
Fetishes are weird. They are not just physical but largely psychological. The exact roots can never be examined. Similarly, why exactly one has this fetish for doctors or hospitals is not known but it could be a cause of residual experience that one has while playing doctors and nurses in childhood or it could just be an erratic sexual impulse or a symbol that has integrated itself into the psychosexuality of the subject.
All we know is that, like any other kink, a medical fetish is the result of erotic attachment that makes one obsessed with the idea of hospitals, nurses, doctors, and equipment.
Medical Fetish Guidelines
Find Out Your Exact Inclination
Like we already mentioned, medical fetish can vary from person to person. Unlike other fetishes, this one is not a straightforward one. You may find medical equipment erotic and like to use them while having sex but the idea of role-playing may not interest you much. Or you may just be aroused by doctors and want your partner to dress and behave like one.
So the first step is to find out your kind of kink. What arouses you, and how far are you willing to take it. Once you know what you want, it becomes easy for you to enjoy the act.
Find the Right Partner
Kinks can be really freaky for people who are not into the same kind of thing. Thus if you are a medical fetishist find a partner who is willing to cater to your needs or has a similar fetish.
A consenting partner is foremost when it comes to any kind of sex. You may also engage in sexual activities with real doctors as long as they are okay with your kinks.
Sterilize Your Toys/Tools and Partner
Sterilization is of utmost importance:
- Keep your medical fetish toys clean and sterilized.
- Use sterile gloves.
- Sanitize your surroundings and make sure that both you and your partner have showered and thoroughly cleaned yourself before and after sex.
- Clean your equipment with alcohol and try using it and throw items for the play session.
Toys and Tools to Use in Medical Fetish
If you think you can perform best on your regular bed, you clearly have not used a sex chair/bed. This is specially designed for sex and allows you several positions. It also comes with fasteners that help you combine BDSM with your medfet.
If you wish to explore more with restraints, you can get your own set of restraints and torture and tease your partner with those. There are several kinds of restraints available- right from flimsy to hard ones. Get the right ones depending on the kind of bondage you and your partner prefer.
Coming to more sensitive and somewhat dangerous tools (dangerous only if not used properly), sounding devices are great fun but might entail some risks. If you are a newbie, we recommend you to stay away from these.
Sounding devices are thin, sharp instruments that are inserted directly into the penis for prostate stimulation. It can also be used to stimulate the bladder, which is riskier.
Sounding devices have a direct connection with medical fetishism as it was originally used for medical treatment and based on this model, it was later modified to tend to sexual pleasure. You can also pair up your CBT toys with the sounding devices to amplify the intensity.
This penis-sounding device is another piece of pleasure for people who are into urethral stretching. It gives you immense pleasure when done in the right manner.
Lube Applicating Syringe
This is among the most fun fetish sex toys. We all know how important lube is, whether vanilla sex, BDSM, or sex toys, lubes are indispensable. And trust us, there cannot be a more fun way than introducing the lube in one’s angina through a syringe.
It feels like cum inside the pussy and also satisfies one’s impregnation fetish. In fact, it is better than actually cumming inside. For cumming means the end of the story but with this injection, it is only the beginning.
By now, it must be clear to the readers that the level of risk factor depends upon the activity you are engaging in and your choice of equipment. Thus the kind of precaution you must take will be decided by the kind of kink you want.
However, on a general level, one must always maintain cleanliness and safety whenever using any sex toy. If you have a simple doctor nurse role play fantasy, you may be reckless about the safety because you are not doing anything out of the box that would require precautions but with the inclusion of restraints, sounding devices, etc. you must be careful about the safety. Let us go through the safety tips.
- Wash and sterilize your sex toys before use.
- If you are using real medical instruments, make sure you use disposable ones.
- Do not indulge in any medicine consumption or drug injections.
- Use objects that you can handle safely.
- Come up with a safe word and abide by it.
- Detect allergies like silicone allergy, latex allergy and avoid sex toys that are made of such materials.
- In case of using any kind of insertable toys, use a good amount of lube.
- Do not try your hand at delicate and risky items like sounding devices if you are not a pro.
- Demand and grant respect for consent.
Fetishes That Entail Some Risks
These are used for explosive bowel movements. They can be bought easily from any pharmacy store. Although it is used by many people at home, it may come with certain risks. Make sure you read the instructions before using one.
It’s no news that gasses can be extremely dangerous. And thus getting a gas source legally would be next to impossible. But in case, you lay your hands on a jar illegally, make sure you have proper supervision or expertise to go forward with it.
You can also opt for breathe play devices that are comparatively safer and give you the same effect.
Restraints are extremely normal in not just medical play fetish but also in several other kinks. However, you must be careful about the blood circulation of the partner who will be restrained.
Come up with a safe word and release your partner when he/she calls out. Do not explore the extremes that can be life threatening.
By castration, we definitely do not mean literally ripping off your partner’s genitals. It is an enactment of the same. You can drape tape around the penis and act like surgically removing it with a sharp scalpel. Be extremely careful using the scalpel anywhere near the penis. Even if the penis is covered and tucked away.
Things To Avoid
Although medical sex play is a periphery that can be extensively explored there are certain boundaries that must neither be approached nor crossed. These include:
- Cervical penetration
- Drug injections
What to Do If Something Went Wrong
If you are in doubt, it is best to avoid. Sometimes pretending can be really sexy and you need not get into trouble like a serious cut or bruise. However, one must always be prepared for the worst. In case of a cut, apply pressure and cold press to the area. Tending to the wound can actually elevate your experience of the medical sexual fetish. If the cut is serious and bleeding excessive, rush to the emergency room. A moment of embarrassment is way better than a lifetime of regret.
Monitor the cut and look for infections and follow up the check up routine. We hope you take precautions and never have to face such a situation.
Medical fetish is among the common fetishes, believe it or not. Having the right kind of setting and the perfect (and safe) equipment can enable you to live your fantasy to the fullest. Get a consenting partner and begin your explorations, Doctor of eroticism.
Let us know what you love about medfet and your best experience.
- 1 What is a Medical Fetish?
- 2 Medical Fetish Guidelines
- 3 Toys and Tools to Use in Medical Fetish
- 4 Safety Precautions
- 5 Final Word